Ever had someone you're really pissed off with try and hug you? It's an interesting aggressive tactic, because like a puppy that has just crapped on your carpet, then looks at you with huge cute eyes- you can't kick them when they're like that.
Other unwelcome hugs are more straight forward- a stinky or sweaty armpit, or a sleaze trying for a sly grope on the way. It's the intent of this version that really annoys me though.
A hug is generally an affectionate, friendly gesture. Forcing a hug on someone who is unwilling or not ready though- is forcing them into a position where they become the "bad person". It's like saying "I'm over it- why aren't you" or " are you REALLY still mad at me?". It's turning a positive into a negative- Evil!
Backwards to a Foreword
I started these writings with the intent of making mostly comedic style social observations. But opinions are like arseholes- everyone's got one- and as if often the way- the original intent is not what has eventuated, as the darker side of my mind has been very much in control lately.
All my writings are essentially a point of view or recollections of lived experiences. As with witness statements, which are not admissible as evidence in court due to the high rate of inaccuracy- sometimes what I feel, think or remember won't be the same as other people who may have been present for the same events.
They are my thoughts, feelings and memories, and may not necessarily represent those of people represented in them.
All my writings are essentially a point of view or recollections of lived experiences. As with witness statements, which are not admissible as evidence in court due to the high rate of inaccuracy- sometimes what I feel, think or remember won't be the same as other people who may have been present for the same events.
They are my thoughts, feelings and memories, and may not necessarily represent those of people represented in them.
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