My friend just posted pictures online of his wedding. In one picture in particular, his wife's nipples and areola are clearly visible through her wedding dress- argh!
To be an arse- it was really awkward to be confronted with them unexpectedly! And as a friend- should I tell him? (I've never met her). They're online now, so once its on the net- that's forever, so would that just create a nasty feeling? Besides- the bystander effect is in full swing- I havent seen him in years, and I'm guessing at least 100 people would have seen the pics by now, so why should I share this highly personal, sensitive information with him *shirks responsibility*.
Maybe they knew and didnt care? Would that make me a humungous prude to be embarrassed for them if they didnt care?
Backwards to a Foreword
I started these writings with the intent of making mostly comedic style social observations. But opinions are like arseholes- everyone's got one- and as if often the way- the original intent is not what has eventuated, as the darker side of my mind has been very much in control lately.
All my writings are essentially a point of view or recollections of lived experiences. As with witness statements, which are not admissible as evidence in court due to the high rate of inaccuracy- sometimes what I feel, think or remember won't be the same as other people who may have been present for the same events.
They are my thoughts, feelings and memories, and may not necessarily represent those of people represented in them.
All my writings are essentially a point of view or recollections of lived experiences. As with witness statements, which are not admissible as evidence in court due to the high rate of inaccuracy- sometimes what I feel, think or remember won't be the same as other people who may have been present for the same events.
They are my thoughts, feelings and memories, and may not necessarily represent those of people represented in them.
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